Are you a tailbearer or a faithful spirit?

This is something that should be resolved for the better before one enters adulthood...

Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people: neither shalt thou stand against the blood of thy neighbour: I am the Lord. Leviticus 19:16

A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter. Proverbs 11:13

The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly. Proverbs 18:8 (And repeated in chapter 26 verse 22).

He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips. Proverbs 20:19

Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth. Proverbs 26:20

The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly. Proverbs 26:22